While I was a easygoing, fun loving, bubbly child, I had one big flaw, I had (and still have ) an evil temper. I was far likely to fly off the handle at the drop of a hat. I was never the person who took things philosophically and accept them, not without a fight at least.
There was this one rainy evening, I was , as always , out playing with a bunch of kids from my building. We were playing in wet, muddy, sludgy, squelchy dirt- a game that consisted of hurling a stick with force to see if it went beyond a certain mark. A nonsensical game that amused us and horrified our parents, all that wallowing in dirt like a bunch of piglets (squealing in delight, I must add).
My mark was off that day, I was hurling like a girl....... wait I am a girl! What I mean is, I was a typical tom-boy, fancied myself a boy, strutted like one as well and prided that I was as tall and as strong as one.
Anyway, as I said, my mark was off that day and I lost, every single time I hurled the darn stick, it seemed to have a mind of it's own and a pathetic sense of direction. Oh I was mad as a wet hen that day and had the evil glint in my eye.
Watching this dirty game was Wadi ( that was his name, or at least what everyone called him) . Harmless Wadi, who never hurt a fly in his life. He would smile benignly on everyone and had a vacant, happy look on his face all the time.
He was a child with special needs. We always let him tag along with us. Never treated him differently, never teased him , but also made sure outsiders never ridiculed him, we were a bit protective of him and let him play with us as best as he could. He was a 'kuccha- limbu' in all our games.
Now on that particular day, he was standing watching our game and chomping on some nuts. I lost and was fuming. Wadi laughed at me. I lost what was the last shred of my temper, hurled the stick at poor Wadi and walked away. Poor Wadi ! He never quite knew what hit him, but someone else did. My father happened to see all that happened and waited for me to come home.
I never quite knew what hit me, then!
I learned an important lesson that day. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Accept that. If you do not accept defeat, and throw a tantrum and get caught, a higher authority swiftly doles out punishment. A sore backside and apologizing to an idiot are the two basic elements of a retribution.
More than a tender backside hurt.
I sulked at the whole episode. My Father, fair minded as he was, could not bear my sulky face for long. So one day, he came home with a lumpy parcel and gave it to me. Wicked that I was, I was all prepared to ignore this friendly overture, but a heavenly smell wafted to my nose. It was sweet and the lumpy parcel was soft and my mouth was watering. The combination was too tempting to act sulky. I smiled benignly and ripped open the parcel to find thick slabs of cake, soft, sweet and rich! mmm - mmm- mmm! It was one amazing cake!
A few weeks ago, I picked up a book at the local library and looked at all the recipes and the pictures. Drooled over all of them. But this cake recipe brought back memories that were locked up in one corner of my mind, collecting dust.
I am not confident when baking. I envy the Daring Bakers. Every now and then, however, I venture into this realm and experiment. This was one successful experiment!
The last time I made a cake ,was a success and spurred by that I decided to experiment some more. I am glad I did!
This cake is rich, soft, light, very moist and melt-in-the-mouth! And very easy to make. Anyone can bake it! It won two thumbs up from all my friends :)1 1/2 Cup All purpose flour
2 1/4 tsp Baking powder
1/4 tsp Salt
2 sticks butter softened ( I used 1 scant cup oil)
1 generous cup superfine sugar
3 eggs, lightly beaten with
1 tsp Vanilla extract
8 oz/ 1 c grated coconut (fresh/ frozen) - do not use dry shredded coconut
Allow the frozen coconut to come to room temp.
Preheat oven to 325 F. Grease pan, set aside
Sift the flour with baking powder and salt and set aside
Beat the butter and sugar until creamy and light in color
Lightly beat eggs with vanilla extract and then add to the mixture, little at a time, beating well after each addition.
Gently fold in the flour in 3 batches , then fold in the coconut and mix it just enough to distribute the coconut through out the cake
Bake in the oven for 35-40 mins. or until the cake is light and golden brown and a toothpick comes out clean.
Cool on a wire rack.
Serve with a confident smile!